The unmovable and very solid object in the wall or tree scenario makes a big difference, but it would be valid to compare two cars going to the same speed head on vs one car going twice the speed vs the other standing still in the same head on. The dynamics of the crash would be a bit different but the energy involved and the energy distribution would be most similar than a car vs an object.
No, this is not correct.
There are two factors at work here:
1) Total energy that must be dissipated. This is 0.5 * m * v^2 for each moving object.
2) Available mass to deform and dissipate that energy once the collision occurs.
Let's do actual calculations with reasonable numbers:
Car #1 (Telsa): m1: 2000 kg
Car #2 (2nd Tesla): m2: 2000 kg
Wall: Immovable, infinitely strong, i.e. no deformation or ability to dissipate energy.
Now we'll look at 5 different scenarios, in order of crash severity (using the dissipation factor as the crash severity indicator):
A. Car #1 @ 100 km/hr vs. Car #2 stationary:
Total Energy = 0.5 * m1 * v1^2 = 0.5 * 2000 kg * 100 km/hr ^ 2 =
772 kJ.
Dissipation factor = Total Energy / Total Mass = 772 kJ / 4000 kg =
0.193 J/g.
B. Car #1 @ 100 km/hr vs. Car #2 @ 100 km/hr:
Total Energy = 0.5 * m1 * v1^2 + 0.5 * m2 * v2^2 = 0.5 * 2000 kg * 100 km/hr ^ 2 + 0.5 * 2000 kg * 100 km/hr ^ 2=
1543 kJ.
Dissipation factor = Total Energy / Total Mass = 1543 kJ / 4000 kg =
0.386 J/g.
C. Car #1 @ 100 km/hr vs Wall:
Total Energy = 0.5 * m1 * v1^2 = 0.5 * 2000 kg * 100 km/hr ^ 2 =
772 kJ.
Dissipation factor = Total Energy / Total Mass = 772 kJ / 2000 kg =
0.386 J/g.
D. Car #1 @ 200 km/hr vs. Car #2 stationary:
Total Energy = 0.5 * m1 * v1^2 = 0.5 * 2000 kg * 200 km/hr ^ 2 =
3086 kJ.
Dissipation factor = Total Energy / Total Mass = 3086 kJ / 4000 kg =
0.772 J/g.
E. Car #1 @ 200 km/hr vs. Wall:
Total Energy = 0.5 * m1 * v1^2 = 0.5 * 2000 kg * 200 km/hr ^ 2 =
3086 kJ.
Dissipation factor = Total Energy / Total Mass = 3086 kJ / 2000 kg =
1.543 J/g.
You can see how much the speed affects the outcome. Physics doesn't lie, and that squared velocity will always catch up to you. Compare scenarios B and D: Same closing speed of 200 km/hr, but with all the speed in one car, the crash is
twice as severe as the same collision with the speed evenly split between the two cars.
But the available mass to dissipate the crash energy is the other forgotten factor. Compare scenarios D and E: Same closing speed of 200 km/hr, but without the extra 2000 kg of the other car to dissipate the crash energy, the collision with the wall is
twice as severe as the collision with another car.