No, this is not correct.
There are two factors at work here:
1) Total energy that must be dissipated. This is 0.5 * m * v^2 for each moving object.
2) Available mass to deform and dissipate that energy once the collision occurs.
Let's do actual calculations with reasonable numbers:
Car #1 (Telsa): m1: 2000 kg
Car #2 (2nd Tesla): m2: 2000 kg
Wall: Immovable, infinitely strong, i.e. no deformation or ability to dissipate energy.
Now we'll look at 5 different scenarios, in order of crash severity (using the dissipation factor as the crash severity indicator):
A. Car #1 @ 100 km/hr vs. Car #2 stationary:
Total Energy = 0.5 * m1 * v1^2 = 0.5 * 2000 kg * 100 km/hr ^ 2 = 772 kJ.
Dissipation factor = Total Energy / Total Mass = 772 kJ / 4000 kg = 0.193 J/g.
B. Car #1 @ 100 km/hr vs. Car #2 @ 100 km/hr:
Total Energy = 0.5 * m1 * v1^2 + 0.5 * m2 * v2^2 = 0.5 * 2000 kg * 100 km/hr ^ 2 + 0.5 * 2000 kg * 100 km/hr ^ 2= 1543 kJ.
Dissipation factor = Total Energy / Total Mass = 1543 kJ / 4000 kg = 0.386 J/g.
C. Car #1 @ 100 km/hr vs Wall:
Total Energy = 0.5 * m1 * v1^2 = 0.5 * 2000 kg * 100 km/hr ^ 2 = 772 kJ.
Dissipation factor = Total Energy / Total Mass = 772 kJ / 2000 kg = 0.386 J/g.
D. Car #1 @ 200 km/hr vs. Car #2 stationary:
Total Energy = 0.5 * m1 * v1^2 = 0.5 * 2000 kg * 200 km/hr ^ 2 = 3086 kJ.
Dissipation factor = Total Energy / Total Mass = 3086 kJ / 4000 kg = 0.772 J/g.
E. Car #1 @ 200 km/hr vs. Wall:
Total Energy = 0.5 * m1 * v1^2 = 0.5 * 2000 kg * 200 km/hr ^ 2 = 3086 kJ.
Dissipation factor = Total Energy / Total Mass = 3086 kJ / 2000 kg = 1.543 J/g.
You can see how much the speed affects the outcome. Physics doesn't lie, and that squared velocity will always catch up to you. Compare scenarios B and D: Same closing speed of 200 km/hr, but with all the speed in one car, the crash is twice as severe as the same collision with the speed evenly split between the two cars.
But the available mass to dissipate the crash energy is the other forgotten factor. Compare scenarios D and E: Same closing speed of 200 km/hr, but without the extra 2000 kg of the other car to dissipate the crash energy, the collision with the wall is twice as severe as the collision with another car.
I was comparing scenario B vs D. With relativistic velocities, the math gets different, but we're nowhere near the speed of light here, so plain Newtonian Physics is fine. When defining a system in Newtonian system, velocities are relative to the frame of reference. Walking 5 mph on a train moving at 50 mph can be described as 45 or 55 mph depending on the direction your walking on the train if the frame of reference is from outside the train. But as far as your body is concerned you are only traveling 5 mph as long as the train doesn't change direction or speed.
The math gets a little trickier when dealing with kinetic energy because the velocity is squared and you also have to ask the question whether you're looking at the entire energy of the collision or the energy absorbed by just one car in the head on collision. This explains the math:
http://mathforum.org/library/drmath/view/60747.html
The math is more straightforward when the two cars are the same weight and the collision is just right to make the math easy, which doesn't happen in the real world. But ultimately I didn't do the greatest job framing the problem in my head before trying to describe it.
That's true, but misleading. There is a significant difference between crashing into an immovable wall and a stationary car.
I was not comparing the situation when two cars hit one another head on vs a car traveling twice as fast into a wall. The results are going to be different because of the difference in characteristics of the wall.