I did write to my Tesla Customer Advocate and received 2 emails back, both nice reply's, but basically saying no chance:
To initial inquiry:
Follow up:
I so hope the Roadster forum link above is true - my wife and I think most women in particular will be very happy not having to search around for multiple old fashioned remote controls. I really think this is very short sighted, or profit taking on Tesla's part.
Meanwhile, this link to a VW forum, shows a low cost workaround using a $40 homelink part - any ideas as to best place to incorporate on the S?:
http://forums.tdiclub.com/showthread.php?t=270476
It seems Tesla folk do read these forums, so please post your support for including Homelink in all versions.