No, no, no... if you don't understand the difference between what VAG did and what everyone else did, then that's at the crux of your VW apologistic stance. As far as we know right now, everyone else passed the tests, but the way the tests were set up didn't reflect real world usage. After the scandal, the various governmental agencies around the world that set up the tests are re-examining the testing to better reflect real world results... and the vehicles that passed the earlier tests would have problems passing "real world" testing.
VAG chose to cheat on the tests in order to save on cost of goods sold and R&D. They deliberately promoted "clean diesels" when they knew they were not clean. And when they were caught, instead of fessing up, they continued to delay and lie and cheat and delay. EPA regulators kept giving them time and space to come up with explanations expecting that VW wouldn't be so audacious as to continue to lie and cheat even after being caught red handed. So EPA thought maybe it was something they didn't account for in their testing, or some other misunderstanding. But no... VAG chose to make bank on the idea that the fine would likely be too small with respect to the profits they made and the marketshare they gained. The positive feelings you might have for VW and Audi, the slogan, "truth in engineering" is built on this lie. I remember when the reputation of VW and Audi wasn't this way and I was very sympathetic towards Audi after the whole un-intended acceleration sham by CBS.
As far as EVs, it is clear that VAG's approach was again more lies and deception. PR release after PR release, year after year, and their EV products were lackluster. But wait... it's all coming! Don't buy that Tesla or Chevy, or whatever, VW/Audi/Porsche will have great stuff coming soon. The Porsche Mission-E specs relies on battery chemistry that doesn't exist yet in production. And really, putting out a VW ID Buzz specs for 2022 production? These are all paper releases. They don't have the chemistry. They don't have the battery production. They aren't building any of this yet. Maybe it will become true one day and when it does, then they can talk about it.
In the meantime, we have VW Group amongst other automakers claiming that China's EV credit requirements are too aggressive:
Global automakers call on China to ease "impossible" electric car rules
They are also part of the group that asked for the EPA to rollback fuel economy standards for 2025:
Automakers ask EPA to overturn recent review of fuel-efficiency standards
Does that sound like an automaker aggressively pursuing EVs? If they really were doing that, they wouldn't mind the standards ratcheting up since they would be ahead of the curve. Instead, we have the opposite. Tesla doesn't mind if the emissions standards and EV requirements go up. But somehow VW Group does... and this is the real effort, not the PR releases of vaporware. The money spent on lobbying is where the company really wants to go.