I give up on trying to explain why the X doesn't fit my needs. It's great if you have kids or need instant torque but that's not what I need. I need room for large dogs and dog crates and sometimes other larger purchases. AFAIK, the X doesn't have that room. I've unsubscribed from X threads...and will probably be canceling my X reservation.
I know how you feel. I know a number of members did the same in the earlier days of the X to get away from the folks constantly putting them down and dismissing their needs or opinions. Some, sadly, have not returned.
Do what works for you. I think tesla will eventually come out with foldable seats, but for us we needed to replace our leased Q7 sooner than later so are sticking with the X (while not turning a blind eye to its limitations )