Just did our first supercharging the past weekend after owning our P85 for a year and went though Hawthorne on the way up and back from San Diego to the Central Coast. No slots closed on Friday or Monday and didn't have to wait either time, but did get the last slot on Friday. It was way busier than Buellton which had one other model S each time we stopped.
Being a supercharger newbie and having my family with me, we charged to almost 100% in each circumstance. With experience, I might have unplugged early. Also, we ate both times while charging which nullifies the time lost during charging. In both cases, after a regular meal we found the car just about 100% after the 1 hour to walk to a place, eat, and use the bathroom.
I work at a company which provides free level 2 charging. I don't use it because I don't need it and because the EV drivers are so so rude. Many don't charge at home. They all feel entitled to free fuel because they've chosen an EV. They have an elaborate protocol for who parks where, how long to charge, etc. They will unplug you if they think you have "enough". It is truly horrible.
I think as people become more accustomed to how this works, it will be just like the queue at the grocery store - some people will be aware of their fellow shoppers and yield their spot in line for someone with a light basket or with kids. Others will be jerks. You can't legislate manners.