bonnie
I play a nice person on twitter.
So to be clear, I am speaking as a moderator and not a participant. But I might say the same thing as a participant.
It is helpful to the discussion to not make generalized statements such as "that's what happens all too often on these forums".
A rule that I have in place for my team at work is that they don't get to say "people in manufacturing never do ..." or "the lawyers always take forever to do ...". Use a specific name. We talk about specific behaviors instead of generalizing group behaviors. It's amazing the difference it's made in terms of people working together instead of against each other.
(I feel the same way about using dismissive names such as 'fangirl' or 'fanboy'. People speak from their experience. Putting a label on them is a way to belittle the experience they've had.)
It is helpful to the discussion to not make generalized statements such as "that's what happens all too often on these forums".
A rule that I have in place for my team at work is that they don't get to say "people in manufacturing never do ..." or "the lawyers always take forever to do ...". Use a specific name. We talk about specific behaviors instead of generalizing group behaviors. It's amazing the difference it's made in terms of people working together instead of against each other.
(I feel the same way about using dismissive names such as 'fangirl' or 'fanboy'. People speak from their experience. Putting a label on them is a way to belittle the experience they've had.)