As others have commented it varies. I'd like to add that it varies based on each person's objective or desired outcome, as much as it does risk tolerance. Some of us are retired and are much more focused on income - we've accumulated what we believe we'll need and now the focus is on income. Many or most are accumulating and these differences in objectives / outcomes leads to different risk/reward or cost/benefit decisions / assessments.
Knowing your own objective(s) will help you make your own decision about the mix of cash / shares / far expiration call ownership that makes sense for you.
The way I think about this thread - we've got a bunch of people that have latched on a broadly similar approach (seling options). But we've got different objectives and risk profiles. So we're learning together; the goods, the bads, the uglies. If the best teacher is an expensive lesson, and the next best teacher is an inexpensive lesson, then this thread is also creating the possibility to learn from other people's lessons. We also get to celebrate the many profitable lessons people are learning as well (what could be better than being paid to learn!).
This is also why you see so many posting about trades they're making. The way I see it, the real value in the trade posts isn't that a trade was being made. It's that there's a trade and why that trade, at that time. The size of the trade isn't relevant (which is why I don't include my own trade sizes - I don't include that info, or I normalize it to something). The trades aren't there for anybody to mimic / follow - they're there along with the rationale and alternatives considered to go into the hopper that each of us has for making decisions.
And at the end of the day - we all make our own decisions and we experience our own consequences. A recent theme has been that several people have reported 'rebalancing' their portfolio towards more cash than they've previously held. I'm one of those, but again I've got an income focus rather than a capital appreciation focus.