These conversations about either (a) slowing down or (b) stopping to charge (and what if the charger is in use?) are why my wife is still not with me on the Model S. Especially when we are talking about $80k+. It's really hard to accept such compromises when our weekend and vacation time is limited and we have schedules to keep.
I've taken a Roadster on many long trips. I don't slow down. It's true that I would have to if I was going on a 245-mile trip without stopping. But the chargers are no more than 150 miles apart, so there's no need. I can go as fast as I want. The key is, I don't plan 245-mile trips with no charging.
Not to mention the road trips are typically only once a year or so. 360 days out of the year, I'm just driving around town, and I'm not going to go anywhere near 200 miles. I don't even look at the battery gauge. Seriously, I have way more range anxiety in a gas car because it's not full every morning, so I have to check the gas level. The only time I watch the battery meter is on that once-a-year road trip. I could slow down for that road trip if I really had to; but I don't plan my trips that close (with gas or electric) because there's too much that can go wrong.
The reason slowing down gets brought up is that some people are hoping to take a "300-mile" nominal-range car on a trip close to 300 miles without charging. That's not the right kind of trip for the car. It's like buying a gas car with an advertised 30mpg and a 10-gallon gas tank on a 300-mile trip without refueling. Sure, it can be done...but there are so many factors that affect mpg, would you really try? If there are no gas stations along the route (or you just don't want to use them), then my claim is that is not the right car for the trip. Just like a Miata is not the right car to take the kids on vacation; it doesn't have enough seats. That doesn't make it a bad car; just the wrong car for that trip. Buy a different car (or at least have another one available; that's what most Miata drivers do) if you need to go near the edge of its range quickly without stopping in any weather.
(To complicate things slightly: I'm addressing people thinking about buying a car, and considering their driving. If you will regularly stretch the range, the car is not for you. Seriously, don't buy it; there are plenty of people that won't regularly stretch the range that will be happier with it. Of course, for those of you that do buy the car, even if you have a gas car available for a long trip, you won't want to take it. So then you might find yourself plotting how to make it work for a range-stretching trip. But that's not something you have to do, it's something you want to do. It will be far easier to plan once you've had the car for a while and have a better feel for its capabilities under your own driving, terrain and weather conditions).