I don't think you need to go through all of these gyrations, and suggesting the above will leave someone with the wrong impression of the car.
Your advice might be applicable for a Nissan Leaf, which doesn't actively cool its battery and leaves it at the mercy of the elements. Not so with Model S. Model S has the most advanced battery management system in the world. The batteries and chargers inside the car are liquid cooled. The Model S automatically maintains the battery temperature within Tesla's chosen parameters. If the car sense the battery pack getting into a bad temperature range, it will immediately heat or cool the pack even when parked and unplugged.
Use it like you stole it. Charge to as much as you need and don't worry about the rest. If you ever charge to 100%, try to time your charge so you drive off shortly after the charge completes. Charging to 100% isn't inherently bad, it's letting it sit at 100% for long periods of time (weeks) that could result in slightly more degradation over YEARS and many tens of thousands of miles. Battery degradation also appears to be more strongly related to time than miles driven. So if you baby your car and don't drive it much, your pack is still degrading in much the same way as someone else who drives much more. Tesla's warranty against failure is unlimited miles.
DRIVE THE CAR AND DON'T WORRY!
Good advice, I agree.
I am just posting what I would do, to help the OP to be just as obsessive-compulsive in caring for his car.
As for the Leaf, without any battery cooling, I would never consider ownership in hot climates such as Phoenix or San Antonio, but it should be fine everywhere else.
GSP