Ouch.
If you have a swimming pool, running the pump at night instead of the day (at least for some portion of your turnover time) will likely flip everything in your favor. If not, you need to pay attention to the clock and shift everything away from 2-9pm. Weekends and holidays are more favorable on times (3-7, I think), so you can offload to then as well.
I run my pool pump at night mostly, and charge both cars at 3am. On EV-A, I run a ~$1k sacrifice credit at true-up, but that represents about 1MWh of consumed energy. I've got bids going to install panels on our new pool house so that I can net out energy despite the finances.