The core issue under discussion isn't the connector standard, it's the priority of vehicles at different kinds of charging spots. It happens to be the case that the lack of a Model S-to-J1772 adapter means that Model Ss have an absolute priority at HPWCs—no one else can use an HPWC. Likewise, it used to be the case that Leafs had absolute priority at CHAdeMO—again, because no one else (in the U.S.) can use it. The CHAdeMO-to-Model S adaptor has changed the latter situation, making even more salient the core question: do all EVs have equal rights at all charge points?
It's easiest to think about this situation by imagining that there is a single connector standard, so that any car is physically capable of charging at any point (equivalently, that everyone carries a full set of adapters). Stripped to this basic situation, I think it clear that the organization(s) that have a financial stake in the charge point can set whatever rules they like. Tesla has the right to limit Supercharging to Model Ss from which it has received the $2000 fee (or had SC included). A hotel has the right to limit access to customers, and if Tesla donates the HPWC under the condition that it be used only for Tesla vehicles, then that is enforceable.
If one accepts that some customers may be excluded in this way, then it follows directly that there can be different priorities among customers. For example, a Nissan dealership is within its rights to tell a Model S owner that charging is allowed unless the charge point is needed for a Nissan vehicle, a more generous policy than Tesla's.
So with respect to the thread topic, bring on the adapter. Its use, however, should respect the policies of the HWPC owner.