Thanks to all who responded thus far.
I had a chance to test drive the X in Sunnyvale yesterday, and I was able to answer my question for myself...well, sort of.
I'm 6'2", about 195lbs. My height is more in my legs. My brother is about the same height as me and he always complains
about headroom in cars, while I always complain about leg room.
We test drove the 7 seat version. But I was also able to sit in the 6 seat version for some time back at the store.
It's good that we drove the 7 seat version, cuz I drove for about 10-15min, and then I let my guest drive,
while I sat in the 3rd row. I got to ride back there for probably another 10-15min.
Sitting in the 3rd row wasn't what I'd call "comfortable". It wasn't horrible. I've sat in worse (3rd row of a highlander!).
But it wasn't too much fun. I felt like there was only one position I could sit in, and I had to kind of hold that position for
optimum discomfort. It's like, I wanted to keep my butt firmly in the back of my seat, and not slouch but rather sit up
straight to avoid my knees banging around on the hard seat backs of the 2nd row. But, that put my forehead pretty close
to the roof, and if I leaned forward I could brush my head against the roof. So it was kind of that competing feeling of
wanting to strike a balance between not being too close to the roof and not banging my knees too much. I should note
that directly above my head was mostly the glass of the rear hatch. So directly above my head I did have some breathing
room. And if I sat with the back of my head on the headrest, it kept my head kind of in that little bubble of space.
But, you just naturally want to lean forward, especially if you're trying to talk to the people in the 1st row.
Another important point is that when I sat in the 3rd row, at first I was like, this is awesome! But, that's because the 2nd
row wasn't in the correct position. Once my guest went to drive, the X first stowed the whole 2nd row in the proper
position before it would allow him to drive. That part felt something like an Indiana Jones movie as the wall of 3 seats
started moving back towards me and I had to find the little gaps between the 2nd row seats to get my knees into or
else it really wouldn't have felt good. I understand the 2nd row seats have to be in this position for safety.
Oh, and another thing, the foot room in the 3rd row isn't great. The floor of the 3rd row kind of slopes forward from the
bottom of the 3rd row seat cushion. It's not like it drops straight toward the earth, and then flattens out. What this does
is it forces your heels a little forward, and if you have big feet (like me), then it doesn't leave much option of where to put
your feet. They can kind of slide side to side but not much front to back.
So, it all just amounted to a not great experience. Again, by "not great", I just mean, not great. It wasn't horrible.
One good thing is the seat cushion is decently high off the ground. In some 3rd rows (highlander/pilot), you sometimes
feel like your just sitting on a 6 inch high cusion on top of a flat bed so your knees are way up high. The 3rd row in the
X isn't like that.
So, all in all, what's my verdict? I could ride in the back of a 7 seat X for a while (like over 20min for sure) - alone.
If I was with another adult...eek, not that long for sure without feeling like I really wanted to get out.
Personally, since I only have 2 kids, I would for sure choose the 6 seat option over the 7 seat.
Sitting in the 6 seat version seems to give the legs enough options to stretch that I could slouch a little and not feel
too close to the roof. I could even see sitting with another adult for a while like that (we tried that for a minute or so).
The extra cargo space also seemed pretty good in the 6 seat version. That open center aisle looked like it could
hold just about any box you could buy at Ikea.
I still haven't decided if on overall I prefer it over a cheaper CPO Model S with rear facing seats.
But if I did, I'd buy the 6 seat version over the 7 seat version.