Yeah, it seems like us original Model 3s are not getting the love we once did. At the time I would watch Model S owners from 2014 complain that they were not getting the latest updates. I guess I should have seen this coming.
I read someone here suggesting opting out of the Beta to get updates, I tried it and it worked, I got 36.5.1 the next day. Then my friend who got his Model 3 the same day I did but hadn't opted out got it too, so I don't know why you are still on v32, but I feel your pain, reading all those people who are loving v44 is painful.
Just wait until the CCS adapter comes out and all those of us with early 3s are lining up at the SCtr to get the upgraded charge port controller card.