I'm going to extend my 'pilots know in their bones' theme to 'glider pilots know in their bones'. Classic cross-country thermal soaring is a pretty precise analog for driving an EV on a road trip with charging stops along the way: you 'charge the battery' of a glider by being towed aloft, cruise along on course (draw from the battery) while looking for a thermal (charging station). When you find a thermal you stop cruising and circle to gain altitude (charge the battery). At some point you decide to continue on course (stop charging and drive on). Lather, rinse, repeat.
The problem of optimizing thermalling cross-country speed in a glider was solved in a theoretical sense a long time ago. As a historical aside, much of the theoretical work was done in the early 1950s by Paul McCready, the late founder of AeroVironment, which makes EV charging stations, among other things. Two aspects of cross-country thermal soaring are particularly relevant here: the question of how fast to cruise between thermals (charging stations) and when to leave a thermal and continue on course.
Without going into detail, the basic concept is simple: to optimize cross-country speed, minimize the time to the top of the next thermal (minimize the time to the end of your next charging stop). Seems pretty self-evident when you put it that way, right? But what guidance does that give us as EV drivers?
First: the slower the next charge, the slower you should drive to get there. If you imagine a time plot of SOC over several charging stops, what you want to see is a sawtooth pattern with equal slope on either side of each valley, where the valley represents the start of a charging session. If your next charging stop delivers a 20kW charge, you should drive so as to average a draw of 20kW en route to the charge stop. If it's a Supercharger, you 'should' drive at a 90kW draw (safety and speeding tickets aside). If it's a 10kW L2J1772, better hope it's an overnight stop. If it's a 15A 120V wall outlet...well, that sucks.
So that's the ideal: but the practical reality is different in several interesting ways. Remember our cross-country glider pilot? The first complication arises when you consider that in order to continue making progress, our pilot must find the next thermal before reaching the ground (depleting the battery to zero SOC). In a glider, you never really know where you'll find the next thermal, whereas in an EV you should always know where your next charge stop is located. When a glider pilot becomes concerned about finding a thermal and goes into survival mode (i.e., is no longer interested in maximizing cross-country speed), he slows down to a speed that maximizes his search radius; the EV driver slows down to a speed that brings the charging station within range.
When does our glider pilot decide to leave a thermal and head back out on course? If the thermal is stronger than average, he'll stay there and get as much altitude as possible, only leaving when the rate of climb starts to diminish. If the thermal is weaker than average and there is a reasonable expectation that there is a stronger thermal ahead on course, he might choose to stop climbing at a lower altitude and press on in the expectation of climbing faster in the next thermal. Similarly, an EV driver sitting at an L2 charger delivering 6 or 7 kW might choose to leave for a 20kW charger farther down the road as soon as they felt comfortable that they had sufficient range to get there, with reserves. The more experience you have and the better you can anticipate the conditions ahead, the smaller your reserves can be. The decision about when to leave the last charging stop for your final destination is based on the charge rate: the faster the charge, the higher the SOC you'll want before leaving, and the faster you'll be able to drive to your destination.
There's more to this subject, but I think that's plenty to chew on for now.