I thought I'd post our final trip summary (for those taking this trip in the future):
On the way to Santa Monica, we took Highway 1 up to Big Sur for the amazing views. It was an absolutely stunning drive. We stopped at a couple scenic spots to take pictures.
Word of caution, Hwy 1 gets very twisty after Big Sur, you will be limited to driving ~45mph. We decided to switch to US 101 after big sur, especially because it was getting dark. (there are no lights on hwy 1).
1. San Francisco -> Carmel Valley Ranch. 130 miles. 70amp charger.
Really nice place. Gated premises. If you tell them you're coming to eat at the restaurant, they will gladly let you in.
Charger was available both times we visited (there and back). We hung out by the pool and had lunch. It was awesome.
2. Carmel Valley Ranch -> Lloyd Marcum Office in San Luis Obispo. 140 miles. 70amp charger
Dr Marcum has a really nice and safe charging spot in the back of his office. We left the car charging and stayed the night
at Granada Hotel downtown (thanks Dr Marcum for recommendation, it was a really nice hotel).
3. Lloyd Marcum Office -> Goleta Rabobank. 100 miles. 70amp charger.
There was a nice cafe called Fresco Cafe North where we grabbed a Coffee and some food.
4. Goleta Rabobank -> Santa Monica. 100 miles. We later charged at Casa Del Mar hotel. Ask vallet to help.
On the way back, we went via 101 since it was a bit faster and we already saw all the scenery. We also decided to skip the Goleta stop, which made the trip much better. Just watch your speed, if you skip Goleta stop, it's a 200 mile leg and need to stay at conservative speed ~65mph.
1. Santa Monica -> Lloyd Marcum. 200 miles.
2. Lloyd Marcum -> Carmel valley ranch. 140 miles.
3. Carmel valley ranch -> San Francisco. 130 miles.
We saw Interstellar on the way back at SLO movie theater, excellent movie.
Thanks again everyone! I'm so grateful for this forum. Couldn't have done it so easily enjoyable without your tips.
--Ed