@JustJohn Have you driven a Model 3
hard yet? Stock Model 3 suspension (M3P or otherwise) is soft and not well controlled when the driving gets tough. (My experience is with October 2021 built cars, I've heard the suspension has changed over the years.) Feels like a lot left on the table for upgrades to help with. On a smooth flat autocross course it
might not make that much difference in lap times,
if the driver is good and can adjust for the suspension's slow reactions, but there's probably some time to be gained from upgrades. (Note I'm just guessing, I don't have any autox experience to back that up, I'm mostly extrapolating from my past track day experience.)
On "real world" rough, uneven roads the stock suspension can get overwhelmed with the car's weight bouncing all over the place. Sounds like what you saw happen at that autox. I don't doubt it, but as others have said, don't discount the car as a whole just from the mediocre stock suspension tuning. The fundamental balance and control of this car feel really good. Put a good performance suspension on the car and I bet it'll rip, as others here are saying from experience. (I'm still waiting for the coilovers I ordered!)
Most automakers include or offer a legit sporty suspension upgrade for their performance models. Tesla doesn't for the M3P, it's basically the same suspension as a regular Model 3, which is nothing special. It's unfortunate but thankfully some aftermarket tuners have stepped in with good options, if you're willing to go that route. If you're not, and you want a performance car with a legit buttoned-down, well-damped sports suspension from the factory...I would steer you away from the Model 3