Some things on your list are legit (transmission oil I think it is recommended at 120,000 miles, not sure about any service on the motor or battery coolant).
For my P85D I had a lease through US Bank. I was not convinced of Tesla, and the guaranteed lease-end value (by US Bank should Tesla go belly-up) was contingent on maintaining the yearly service record. So I paid if I remember correctly 600$ twice - got the wiper fluid replenished, something something inspected, and a wheel alignment - which was extra-charge, as it was not included in the service. A complete waste of $1200
So for the 3, I am:
Brake fluid? Not replacing yearly - just like I don't do it in my Merc
Motor lubricant? Not even sure of any required maintenance - but will search this forum
Wiper fluid? Just refilled. Took me about 5 minutes
Fob battery. You must be kidding. Never again key fob since the phone unlock
Cabin Filters? I am thinking 3 years - just like the Merc
Alignments? A waste? I'll do it once a year at the shop that swaps my winter and summer wheels
So far so good. And I'll schedule my 2022 service for the oil thingies - just in case Tesla will not be able to do that for me due to overwhelming waiting times