Thanks again, I think both ways are okay in our area as my parents house is also near by in the same city and we have the same power company (DTE) and in their case the ground is connected to the main meter pan. Parents house was built in 2005 and mine in 2002. Now I am thinking of pulling the ground wire connected to the main breaker panel and just connected it to the main meter so that i dont have to dig to get to the rod.
Big caution for you - remember that the top half of the meter socket is live when the meter is pulled and you'll be working very, very closely to it. If you're going to do the work, be sure you're wearing proper protective equipment and using properly insulated tools.