This happens to me with iPhone 6 IOS 10 and then I upgraded to iPhone 8 + IOS 11 and it still happens 100% of the time. I have to leave my phone unpaired or face the (no) music every time I get in the car. It's not a phone hardware problem. It's not a phone configuration problem. It's either an IOS 11 bug or Tesla bug. I've had similar problems in a Chevy Volt 2017. The only thing that stops it is either leaving the phone unpaired OR make a phone call then hang up. What a pain in phone. I was an s/w h/w engineer before I became an author and I am certain this problem is related to BAD programming logic used to prevent the loss of a call that is in progress when you turn the car on.