Okay, well first of all, it's hard to really judge from watching a video, but here's a screenshot (at 4:34) of when the guy started complaining that the high beams were still active:
First of all, you can see that the oncoming car is still quite far away (or at least appears to be in the video). You can see the high beams are illumuniating maybe 3 of the reflectors (on the left) ahead, while the car is still about 12 or so away. Plus, the car we are in is aimed slightly to the right, and the oncoming car is also aimed to their right (they are on a curve) so not looking in our direction anyway.
And here is the point where it went to low beams (about 3 seconds later at 4:37):
Again, hard to really judge distance from a video, but this is now the point where the two cars are actually aligned with each other and the oncoming car is still 6 reflectors (or so) ahead. I would call that an appropriate time to dip the headlights.
Maybe you guys just turn off high beams as soon as there is any indication whatsoever of an oncoming vehicle, but I typically wait until the closing distance is short enough to really matter, and when the cars are actually aligned with each other.
Plus, don't European vehicles have active matrix high beams where it will dim the portion of the high beam that is targeting a particular oncoming or following vehicle?
Maybe it's not active yet...
If there are better examples in the video, feel free to point them out, but at least in this first instance, I did not see anything strikingly unusable about them.