Thanks for all the nice comments. Also, to clarify, they did wash it before we took it home. Not a big deal, and I am one of those people that has asked for new cars to be delivered unwashed in the past (after a horrible prep job on a VW I had- never did get the swirls out). I've come to accept that dealers don't really wax new cars anymore, just a quick spritz of detailers spray and it's good to go. Although they didn't do a great job, they also did no harm.
It is just a lease, but I take care of leased cars the same as I do purchased ones.