Huh? I've never used a clutch in a forward gear to back into a spot either. I've had the transmission in a forward gear and used the clutch (disengaged of course) and the brake to either move forward, or roll back as needed when parking on a hill. No shifting required. How else are you going to do it? Under your scenario, if the Tesla ALWAYS did hill hold, I'd have to shift into reverse to go backwards or back into a spot that I could just roll into. Do you not have parallel parking in SF?
BTW, you're not the only one who has driven a lot of miles in a manual trans, as-if that makes you smarter then everyone else. I know plenty of people who have driven millions of miles, and they're still pretty bad drivers.