I am not confused about how the grid works. You are correct that anything is possible. The examples I have given demonstrate that no one would set up solar and batteries in a way that you suggest so that they would create congestion on the grid.I'm still saying they can (I never said they would) increase congestion. I think you should reread my posts and ask for clarification if you're confused.
I spent all day yesterday at a symposium about local energy. There was an example given in one of the panel talks about a solar and battery installation at Fresno School District. The impact these installations had on the grid was positive. PG & E was able to defer millions of dollars of planned upgrades as a result.