That's actually one of my Tesla complaints, that I don't have enough realistic range to skip chargers on many routes in an effort to get a stop with a long charge time so I can eat without wasting time elsewhere to charge.
Well we certainly don't have as much range as we'd like and that's one of the fundamental limitations of BEV's. Just adding more battery is subject to diminishing returns on range (not to mention the cost). Rivian, for example, is adding 80% more battery to a comparable sized vehicle and getting 33% more range. The real problem is that you don't know how much range you are going to get until you drive the route and get it. Right now my car is 77% charged and has reported estimated range of 331 miles because the last two trips I took consumed, respectively, 288 and 252 Wh/mi (wish it were always like that). I had a tail wind going out and while I was there it shifted to give me a tail wind coming back. Today I could go to the same destination, have a head wind in both directions and pay 400 Wh/mi implying range of 196 miles which us 59% of the current estimated range. Crappy estimator? No, just what the real world physics impose on us.
Two 30 minute charging stops is not the same as a single 1 hour stop.
Generally people are interested in getting to their destination as quickly as possible and the strategy for doing that is more frequent but shorter charging sessions as the car accepts charge faster at lower SoC than it does when closer to being full. This also benefits the network as cars are in the stalls for less time. But if you want to stop longer for a meal that's easily done. Just ask the car to charge to 90% (or even more but don't do this at a busy charger). I have suggested before that you play with A Better Route Planner. If you do that enough you should be able to come to understand the relationships between the various parameters, learn how to plan routes and better understand the in-car displays.
How can the car predict usage of some 33% of the battery turn into using 47% of the battery in the real world?
That happens when the per mile energy demand of the car as estimated from the recent driving history increases by 42% as you encounter new driving conditions.
...that's one crappy estimator.
Actually it is doing exactly what I and the others here who understand what it is doing would want it to do. As you aren't able to grasp that perhaps it would be better to step back a bit and look at the forest rather than the trees. Were it really a crappy estimator there would be many people here who agree with your assessment, Tesla would be inundated with complaints and the "crappy" estimator would be removed or repaired.
I think you are just going to have to accept that these graphs/displays may not be accessible to you. That's OK. My wife has no idea what they mean either and she still enjoys the car. Perhaps those who advised you to ignore them realized this from your previous posts. Perhaps you could just think of the SoC indicator as a gas gauge. There is, of course, one problem with this and that is that the refueling stations here are much farther apart than actual gas stations so while you might, in an ICE, wait until the little red light comes on, in this car you had probably better start thinking about charging when it dips below 40%. You should, in any case, know where reliable (and right now that essentially, as you found out, means Tesla) chargers are along your route.