Updates: Last week I left the car plugged in the garage and over 4 days it lost 20% of its charge. It would not auto charge for the most part. It did once it hit 61% while I was gone, so I was ecstatic that Telsa may have fixed it. But when I got home, it is behaving as original - losing charge and charge error, not auto charging/scheduled charging.
Just got back from my appointment with Tesla, the service manager showed me the TSB. Tesla is well aware of this issue; they have many unresolved cases so far. The workaround from Tesla is to disconnect the exactly the same connector.
If you have not opened a service ticket, I would highly urge those to open a ticket/service appt so that Tesla sees the pressure and fixes this. (I work at a software company and # of tickets is a key metric to help prioritize a fix)
The service manager popped off the panel and showed me how to disconnect it, so I may reconnect it when an update is pushed out. There was no charge to me, in and out in 10 mins.
The powered trunk still works using the button, just not from the app. Using the app, it lifts up but doesn't shut.
If you want to DIY here are the pics. It is easy.