Yes, my install got put off, and no, Tesla did not offer to recompense me, nor did the thought ever enter my mind. Having been a Tesla owner since 2012, I understand a lot about where they are coming from, and I decided years ago that I was here to support them. So, seven years later, I have two GREAT cars and three GREAT power storage units that effectively got me through a three-day and a five-day power outage with no hardship, recharging each day from my solar panels.
Your problem seems to me is that you feel your are entitled to something. Sure, you worked your butt off. But sometimes things just don't line up. I seem to have that happen to me quite often, like today I wanted to eat a Subway, but my wifey insisted we didn't need to go to town until Thursday. After YEARS of happy marriage, I just let it go. She says she'll make my favorite dessert next week, and I, being a pig, will eat 80% of it. There are good things and bad things, but after 75 years I've learned that's just life.