This conversation is sortof irrelevant for me at current pricing, but for me, it was other luxury 3-row vehicles. This included the Merc E-class wagon, the Merc GLS, Toyota Land Cruiser, Navigator, that kind of thing. They all cost around the same at $80-85k nicely-equipped, but only the Tesla and the E-class drive like cars, and only the Tesla had a front-facing 3rd row of those two (e-class has a very nice jump seat 3rd row). Also wanted car-hauling capability in a pinch, which wasn't a deal-breaker and why the E-class was in the mix.
We also tried the Model Y and didn't much like it. I wanted to like it, but the ride quality, NVH, and the lack of an instrument panel were big bummers, plus it's just a smaller car. Still would be interested in the Y if they stretch it out a bit and add the adaptive suspension.
We use the 3rd row a lot, probably at least once a month lately.