This entire thread makes me uncomfortable. Not just the discussion of gender, but hypothesizing on skill set, compensation, and reason for changing jobs. I don't think any of us would want strangers making random guess about us and then discussing this on a public forum.
This maybe a forum to discuss TM, but does that mean if you go work there you give up all right to privacy? I have friends that work at TM and others considering it, (though maybe not that high on the food chain). I would like to think that discussing their compensation and/or career motivators, and more significantly private issues such as gender identification would not suddenly become a new thread on this forum, just because they chose to work for a company that arguably makes the world's coolest cars.
I don't meant to offend, and I am certainly not implying anyone here has any malicious intent, I am just hoping we can be more mindful of how gossip and speculation effect others.