Perhaps it has more to do with this being my first “luxury” car where folks have more invested in justifying their decision to purchase than anything Tesla specific. My last 5 cars were
1992 Nissan Sentra SE-R with JDM NEO VVL swap (8500 rpm of fun)
1994 Nissan Sentra XE with SR20 + Turbo swap (270 whp in a 2200lb car)
1998 Chevy Metro + 2002 WRX wagon (one got 50mpg the other had awd and 300 whp it was a nice combo for commuting + weekend fun)
2015 Nissan Leaf (boring, no range, but reliable as anything and well appointed considering I paid $17500 out the door after incentives).
The Sentra guys all had Honda Civic envy because of the easy b16 and b18 swaps available to them. The WRX guys had a lot of respect for the EVO. The metro people knew the car was crap but liked the fuel efficiency. And the Leaf folks (myself included) mostly all had Tesla envy but couldn’t afford one.
Considering the $46.3k I dropped on my P3D+ with FSD is more than I spent on all of those other cars combined I should expect a different attitude on the forums.