If Elon says he generally doesn't hate anybody and then says that he dislikes the way some people use pronouns to be bullys, that makes it seem like he hate trans people. But he only said he dislike the way they use pronouns as tool, not that dislikes them(challenge the idea, not the person). The trans people who doesn't do this he has no problem with, he also dislikes the use of pronouns as a tool by non-trans people, so it's not specific to trans people. And he is reacting to them being a bully to him, forcing him to use their pronouns with bully tactics. When you fight a bully, you will seem like a bully from the bully's perspective. Why cannot he just accept their point of view? Stop being such a bully. If you don't I will stop buying your cars and tell all my friend to stop buying your cars also!
Then why the heck does he create problems for these people he was no problem with? The issue is not whether or not Elon harbors hatred in his heart, the issue is HIS ACTIONS AND WORDS!
There is a wide spectrum of humans on this Earth. Almost anything we do can get overdone by some. Using the fact that some people overdo a particular thing as an excuse to make life difficult for a larger group could be used against almost anyone. This excuse is indefensible. Bullying a large group of people because you dislike the bullying of a small subset of that group is not rational behavior and it certainly doesn't make the world a better place. Thousands of eyes for one eye makes the whole world blind.
And we've heard his "I don't hate X" excuse a million times before.
I can't be a racist because I have black friends. I can't be a misogynist because there are women in my life I love. etc
@Elon If you don't hate trans people then stop acting like you do! Stop encouraging others to act hatefully! Stop needlessly making trans lives more difficult! Your bullying of all trans people will not even have a beneficial impact on the behavior you dislike. You can't learn from your mistakes when you refuse to admit you've made one.
I appreciate that you are trying to discuss this rationally, especially when many people (including myself) get emotionally triggered by what we see as Elon's obviously bullying behavior. OTOH, I don't understand why you don't currently see how egregiously awful Elon's words were. IMO he conveyed that he plans to continue to bully all trans people, even the daughter of the Model-3 guy he was talking with, because there are some people on Earth who use pronouns in a way he finds objectionable.
Further, he ended up by saying/implying he is not going to moderate his speech even if others find it offensive, even if it causes harm, and even if it harms his companies. There was not one iota of
"I'm sorry if I hurt your daughter" or
"maybe I'm wrong, let me think about this".
If you think I'm reading too much into his words, please offer corrections. I doubt you can refute that his mocking use of pronouns hurts trans people like the daughter of the man who bravely and respectfully asked the question. But if you think you can then have at it.