No need to go fast in Reverse. This is more of a safety consideration which was raised by my wife yesterday.
Today I drove our model Y in reverse in both Chill and Standard and couldn't tell the difference between them (in reverse).
Back in the day I did an EV conversion on a vehicle. I left the transmission installed. Reverse was geared down lower than first which proved a little problematic, as it was difficult to go in reverse without burning a little rubber. So I installed a chill mode switch which reduced motor output to 25% of full power. This was a great solution.
My preference would be that Reverse has one acceleration curve optimized for safety.
At the end of the day, I am not sure what to tell my wife, because she thinks Reverse is different in Standard mode.
A guy at work tried it with his model 3 today and thought it might be a little different.
jcanoe and myself think it is the same.
Would love a more definitive answer, or a lot more votes.