So your summary is "owners are headless chicken, Tesla did things right, hopefully the owners learned their lesson".
My summary is "Tesla messed up, tried to fix it, ran late, messed up communicating the fix, but based on what we are guessing and deducing so far it seems that for most people the issue seems to be mostly fixed; hopefully Tesla learned from the mess and does a better job communicating where it stands relative to public promises and statements of capabilities on their website."
PotAIto, PotAHto.