IMHO...
If you are going to own a Tesla and be happy, you have to reset your time scale to a couple of years at a time, a time scale of a year or even months won't work out so well for you. You'll find a way to be perpetually miserable.
I bought my Model 3 with EAP for what it could do when I bought it, not for what it might be able to do in the future. Now it's even better, and I love it for what it does now. Maybe it will get even better and I'll like it even more. But I love it for what it does now. Yesterday driving home from Wailuku with EAP engaged, I had a big smile on my face because it was so much easier and nicer making that drive with EAP than it was with the Prius.
It's not a self-driving car and probably won't ever be. But it is self-driving enough for me, for now. On narrow city streets such as South Kihei Rd. I often disengage AP to avoid an obstacle or give more space to a bicyclist. But it's still better than the dinosaur of a Prius with its 14-year-old technology, which I sold once the 3 got here.
My time scale is today, and this car definitely does not make me miserable.