Thanks for the brutal honesty everyone! I'm listening.
$4000 is money free to be spent after mortgage, food, utilities, diapers, hair appointments, etc.
The credit card debt is my first to pay offs while I begin making payments and planned on paying off quick (I had to replace an oven and washer/dryer)
I sold my truck 3 years ago to get us ahead, and we did, and then my new plan is (well, lol after listening to you guys might be a 'was') to buy a Tesla for fun and dependability and drive it for as long as possible as a commuter-only (even after the battery degrades to ~80%).
I chose the performance edition with fsd. I'm 37 about to be 38 (is this what mid-life crisis feels like?)
I'm just tired of not having a second vehicle, smelling gas and oil, constantly having to pay for tune ups, oil changes, etc.