Bardlebee
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I was a "stretch buyer" for sure, some of my family still have the attitude I have no business driving such a "ridiculously expensive car."
I am a stretch buyer in the sense that I could use the money else where besides this car. The one thing I have to say about this quote is that when people tell you how to spend your money in a non-constructive way such as "The car is SO EXPENSIVE" and not "You could use that money on your retirement, have you considered X and Y" are people that are simply jealous.
Other people don't know your financial situation. I came into a bunch of extra money (TSLA stock) and I have weighed all the options and I am deciding to get this car. When my friends look at me they won't see that. They will see someone who financed a 90k car (they will likely assume its 120k or something even more grand) and think I am eyeball deep in debt, when in reality I am financing it for 40k and all my debt is payed off (save my house).
The short version: People get jealous when they see success and good money management. Unless they are constructive, your friends and family are likely just trying to chip you down so they can feel higher.
...man maybe I am jaded haha!