I go back and forth on this issue. Am I frustrated I have a pile of accessories and a plug in the garage I can't use yet? Yes. Do I wish they had not said on the Manage Order page that it would be two weeks from order to delivery (it's 2.5, so crocodile tears I know)? Yes.
Do I think they are committing fraud or being misleading? Sort of, but really I am trying just to focus on staying positive, fulfilling my urges by reading and commiserating with others in the same situation on here, and keeping thoughts that I will hopefully be supremely happy with the car once it's delivered. I am fortunate to be able to afford such a luxury so keeping myself grounded can only help.
My husband on the other hand wants to cancel the car and go somewhere else, but since no one is making cars like this with these features (not to mention the aforementioned pile of accessories in the garage) he knows that I will be extremely unhappy if we were to cancel. So we wait.