OK, I'm a moron, but Tesla gave me some help in that.
First, in my earlier post on the subject of road noise, I called Tesla roadside assistance and they told me I had a particular Michelin tire on my car. Having read the posts about swapping the noisy Michelins for the ContiSilents, I assumed that was correct and ordered 4 of the Continentals. They arrived today and when we went to put them on the car, guess what? That's what I had all along. I know, I know, I should have looked but the rep said she checked my build.... (BTW, I just spoke to roadside assistance, and their notes clearly show they told me that, for what it's worth.)
Unfortunately those are the tires I was complaining were noisy, so that kind of validates a noise study I saw on the web that said the Contis with ContiSilent were not appreciably quieter than without.
Obviously I should have looked myself, but the roadside assistant said she checked my build and those were the tires I had. I've got about 5k on the car, and the flat left front can't be repaired-- a nick in the sidewall--so I'm going to replace both fronts and keep the third as a "spare." Trying to decide whether to return the rears. What is the expected wear life for this car?
Second, and I'm on my own on this one, when the installer arrived today he didn't have a lug socket to fit these lugs, and when I looked in the trubk (in vain) for some sort of tire change kit, what did I find? A tire inflating/sealant pump.... who knew? But I've never bought a car that didn't come with some sort of lug wrench. I assume Tesla does not supply such a thing?
Anyway piority one is the road noise and now I'm back to where I started. Road noise is definitely objectionable on all but smooth asphalt roads. I'm not persuaded that the noise I hear would have been masked by a gasoline engine car, because I haven't sold my BMW 750 yet, and I can tell you it is appreciably quieter than the tesla other than when accelerating. And obviously I have the silent tires. Any thoughts?