If you dont value free lifetime supercharging, whay did you order in the first place?To me its not the cost of the free super charging for my use at all.... I just won't rush to order now like I would have if the free lifetime super charging was included, like I originally did with the 90D.
That's way too many assumptions and presumptions, at least for my taste. Good chance? Do you know something most dont? I agree there is a chance, but there is also a chance the resale will be standard, or minimal. There is also a chance I get into an accident, or get sick, or Trump becomes a president... oops, to late for that one. I'm not sure what's your age, I'm 46, and waiting 5 years is not something I consider viable.... imminent release of the M3, along with many other PEV vehicles being realistic in the next 5 years, some luxury, there is a very good chance resale values will fall hard compared to where they have been for MS....
For some that does not matter, but for me it's a part of my buying decisions.
But, all the variables you just listed have not changed except a new choice between free supercharging with 90D or no free supercharging and 100D - the rest of your variables remain the same. You also say that supercharging is not important to you - why the change of heart?