I've been doing research on this very issue yesterday.
I just checked my database of sold cars, and the range of VINs of P85Ds with the + suspension runs from P62496 to P68980, with three additional outliers:
P77543 US
P77977 UK
P79074 Uk
So your VIN 69359 falls slightly outside that range, but the date seems to be valid.
Below is a list of upgraded components and how they help to create the Model S Performance Plus:
Stabilizer Bars – In a typical “performance car”, large stabilizer bars can corrupt the steering and degrade the ride; but not in Model S Performance Plus. Thanks to our low center of gravity, we have increased the stabilizer bar size front and rear without the negative side effects, allowing greater body control and more predictable handling.
Damping – Tesla’s philosophy on damping is to maintain good handling behavior with good control, while also adhering to a supple ride. The damping characteristics available on the Performance Plus help to bring feedback from the road to the driver to enhance your driving experience, but still manages to encompass road undulations with ease.
Bushings – Tesla focused their attention on increasing lateral stiffness at the rear suspension to improve steering and overall vehicle response. This has been achieved by new and improved compliance characteristics throughout the suspension, thus allowing the springs and dampers to work more efficiently.
This article goes into more detail:
Tesla Model S Peformance Plus Option Now Available for $6,500; Retrofits Offered Too - Inside EVs
Look on your build sheet or Monroney sticker. It will say Performance Plus if it has the Plus Suspension.
I don't think that's true for P85Ds, only P85+. If you have access to the list of option codes for the car (like the color code, type of seats, etc), the option code for the + suspension is:
PX01 -- if you have that, you have the + suspension.