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It should be on during driving if conditions are met.
You can't switch it on manually, there is no way to switch it on, even from Toolbox3 on legacy Model S and X (but you can do it on Model 3/Y and i think refresh S and X).
are you sure those are not just plaid HL ?
Tsportline sells those
AlphaRex NOVA-Series 5x LED Projector Headlights
I'm not sure they look as good, but from what i see, cutoff line and light is much better.