Since none of us were in on the conversation when he was making promises to you we can’t comment on whether he gave you what you thought you were getting. But clearly EAP is not the same thing as FSD. EAP exists today and does not require an upgrade of the autopilot hardware. FSD is what is currently in development, with no definitive time table on when it will be complete. But for those of us who paid for FSD we were promised, via a number of Elon’s tweets, that we would get the free upgrade to HW3 when it was ready.
EAP is no longer available anymore, and it is questionable whether Tesla will add any new functionality to it. At this point you can only have AP (TACC and autosteer) or the full suite of technology referred to as FSD, much of which has not been released yet. Those of us who did purchase EAP when it was still available will not lose any functionality but we probably won’t get much added to it either.