I thought clashing of the chrome and bronze might be the issue.
I think the 21s look great but aren't practical for my 80 mile-a-day driving (sidewall is too small). 22s just look too big with a too-small sidewall, in my personal opinion. I think the 19s look just a little small for the car (especially since I'll have coils) so that makes 20s the ideal size for me. Not much more expensive than 19s, either. Shocked Tesla doesn't offer them.
I also won't be getting the PSSs, since I don't want to shell out that much every time I need new tires.
I'm not looking to spend thousands on wheels, so the high end brands are out. I've been looking at Avant Garde M510s or TSWs. Leaning toward matte black finish.