If the sidewall was losing rigidity, the wear strip wider and would be more up on the sidewall where it is collapsing. not located specifically on the corner of the treadblock on a thin strip. This is also why I laugh when people are saying to run more pressure in their tire to fix the issue...no, that just creates an even stiffer corner, isolating the wear to an even smaller area.
Your toe is still too low. at 0.05 (which is the max cutoff listed by tesla), you're going deep into the negatives with dynamic toe considered. i run my rear toe closer to 0.30, which is where it should be unless you're using a road course configuration.
Again, people need to remember that this is a near 5000 pound car with 1000whp. The amount of force that is put on the suspension is astronomical. There's obviously an issue with toe out under force, so why would you set the car to be at the literal minimum recommended spec?
Edit: Just seen you were raising toe to 0.10, dude just bump it up to 0.20 on the rear (the tesla recommended max is 0.35). you won't notice any stability changes, other than the rear end lightening up a little bit. Would recommend leaving camber at a minimum of -1.0. I tried a -0.8 all around last year and had to add more camber back into it because it made the car pretty floaty.