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I have the 21" wheels on a P85+ and drive daily from Redwood City to SF. Hard to comment on differences from the 19" wheels as I've never driven on them but I find the ride on 101 and 280 to be pretty good for the most part. There are obviously some rougher parts of the freeway than others but...