Based on all this, I thought I'd best test out my adapter before heading out on a road trip. Conveniently, Clipper Creek is just 8 miles away, and has both a Tesla HPC and J1772 listed as available.
I had the same error message when connecting to the J1772 standard. But the good news is that the entire Clipper Creek engineering crew and CEO came out to troubleshoot the problem. First we tried the Tesla HPC. No problems charging. Then tried the J1772 again. Nope. Same error message.
Then the guys opened the charger, dropped the signal from 75 amps to 70 amps. It worked like a charm. Tried it back at 75. It quit working.

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We called Tesla and they're going to get back to me. And work with Clipper Creek on this. But clearly the cable didn't handle a 75amp signal as I thought it would. The firmware update didn't address this. Clipper Creek personnel were surprised, since they thought through conversations with Tesla that this had been addressed. But the phone call confirmed the firmware update was to handle problems with Coloumb only.
The adapter doesn't do me a whole lot of good if I'm not able to take advantage of higher amp charging stations. I'm not okay with that. I've been promised a reply - and will go back to Clipper Creek to test there once I know a solution.
Bleh.