Actually David it is impossible to achieve a balanced loading on a three phase system when supplying a single phase load with a transformer
The phase shift between the three phases means the circuit you have proposed will result in an output of 0V
There are two methods of obtaining a balanced load
1. A three phase to single phase inverter
The three phase is converted to DC then a single phase sine wave AC is created by switching electronics
The three phase supply only sees the DC as a load and is thus balance on the phases
2. A motor generator set
A 3 phase motor is powered by the supply this mechanically drives a single generator
The supply only sees the motor as a load and is thus balanced
There are several methods of converting 3 phase to single phase with a transformer but you can not get a balanced loading on the three phase system with just one single phase output. It could be possible if the load can be distributed between say two single phase ring mains