Go find a McDonalds with free Wifi. Or one of the many other solutions
Not one of those solutions solves the lost time issue.
This isn't solely about $$$ cost, this is time cost.
Maybe you guys all have other family members who 'make' Christmas for you but for those of us who do make Christmas for their families, taking 3+ waking hours to go and chase after the phantom perfect update in my car is a frustration I don't want to put myself through.
The 2023 holiday update is proof that tesla doesn't get updates right the first time. There are dozens of threads in TMC that point to the updates causing problems with hardware, leading to even more time lost for those owners trying to figure out what the problem is.
In your lovely world of a car tucked into a garage with solid wifi, the length of the download is no problem. We originally thought we'd be able to sign on at fast food places or mall wifi and combine tasks. Doesn't happen because too often they require an additional sign-in page, not just a password, or the signal is weak or the service is just too friggin slow. Remember, I have no idea how large a download will be, thanks to tesla not sharing that data with me.
Our solid solution is to drive (20+ minutes, so each download is a minimum of 60 minutes of my time) to a SC and sign in there with the password for the guest network. This works well, but it takes time, they leave that wifi up 24/7 so we can do this at any time (the 2020 holiday update we did on Dec. 25 because that was the year that Christmas was cancelled here and we could not gather with others - it was something fun to do and then sit in the car for ages after the install and explore all the changes, then take the car to the homes of our kids and socially distance outside while they watched the light show.) Unfortunately, neither SC in our area is within walking distance of any errands I might have to do. There are no combining of tasks for me.
Updating is not a bad thing. It is just that it, like the 'plus' of charging at one's parking spot at home, updates make assumptions about how owners are housed. I'm not against updates and will agree that in delivering things like this recall, it is a good thing, but it is a double edge sword that also allows for the removal of features (both UI and hardware) from my car.
In my case, the inconvenience for doing updates (along with the bad reputation they have and the fact that they cost me my radar, functioning auto-wipers and removing and months later returning easy access to the defrost button) make me pause and wait until I make sure that the update is robust, and that I fully understand what features I'm losing as well as those that I'm gaining. If it is a true safety issue, tesla has the option of updating via LTE.
As long as it takes tesla multiple attempts to create a robust, non-destructive, update, I'll wait and let the engineers use other owners as their guinea pigs and wait patiently for either a forced update, or at the very least, a robust update that is worth my time to download.
I'm now two major updates behind. The first will update our FSDbollocks but we are not in a season where we use that feature of our car because it can't cope with salt spray, road markings wiped out by snow/salt, or avoid damage to my car by avoiding pot holes. It will also change the AP nags but as we never are nagged now, we don't anticipate any problem going forward and we are used to the camera being part of the nag process. I'm looking forward to an update that leaves the damn messages on the screen long enough for me to respond to a beep assuring myself the car and I aren't in danger, and then look at the screen to read the message. At this point, I can't do that in under the 1 - 3 seconds I get between sound & message and the message disappearing. Thus I never know if there was a real problem or what behaviour I'm doing that the car doesn't like. As a passenger, I read the messages for the driver but when driving I need either for the message to stay on the screen for 5 - 10 seconds, or to be read to me like it reads text messages (this can be optional, I understand others don't find the disappearing messages an issue.)
THAT is an update that I'd risk downloading immediately as it is a safety feature for me.
I figure I won't get offered the second update until I download and install the first. So I'm happily waiting for V12 to be rolled out widely. When that happens, I'll happily update one day to the holiday update (which is pretty stable at this point, it just isn't worth my time) and then go back the following day (or whenever V12 is offered to me) to update a second time.
This is my vehicle for my use, I'm not tesla's slave, being bossed around by them as they develop their software. Way back in our exchange, you asked why I bought a tesla. To be honest, I didn't understand how intrusive tesla would remain in my life, constantly requiring time from me. In my case, the time I save not standing at a gas pump when using the car around home, or taking the car in for oil changes, is lost to downloading and installing updates (and also learning how my car
now works after an update, since routine things like how to change radio stations can be changed.)
Those who love getting a
new car with almost every update, will love this 'feature' but those of us who just wanted to buy a car to move around while living our lives, don't automatically see this as a positive.